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Let me start off by saying I am not an expert
in flower essences (or "essences" for short). One of the
things I like about flower essences is that no matter what flower
essence you give a cat, it either does nothing or it benefits the
cat -- in other words, it does no harm. ~ Safe, no side affects
or chance of misuse, flower essences can be given in water, food
or directly in the mouth. As little as two drops added to drinking
water for benefits. ~ Oh goody, a safety net -- just my speed. Idiot-proof.
Easy. This I like.
I am not a "formal" flower essence diagnostician
or practitioner. There are people who become specially trained in
practicing in the field of flower essences, on humans, cats, dogs,
birds, whatever), but I could not afford to pay such an expert so
I had to learn the rudiments from books in order to make the essences
available to my own cats.
I have no training other than what I've learned
from books by people who know more than I on the subject (these
books are listed below). The several books I have function as constant
references I can go back to time after time to find out more about
my cats' symptoms and the characteristics/properties of the specific
essences. Each essence has a set of characteristics attributed to
it -- for example, a characteristic/property of the plant called
"Star of Bethlehem" = good for shock or trauma, either
recent or from a past experience. There are a number of other essences
with this same (or similar) characteristic, like "Calendula"
and "Lavender."
When I refer to giving flower essences to cats,
I don't mean to imply that cats are the only beings that can be
helped by flower essences -- humans, dogs, and I imagine many other
animals are benefitted but I leave these up to the experts because
I've worked with cats only. This article is about flower essences
and cats, but do know that whatever applies to cats also applies
to other beings as well.
Flower essences when given to cats have such wonderful
long-term healing qualities that I am willing to waste some flower
essences liquid to make sure the cat gets some essences that help.
I call it a "shotgun approach": some flower essence is
bound to be the right one. Not very elegant, but it gets the job
done. I work with probabilities.
Even after lots of studying of the books, I was
never very good at finding the EXACT flower essence(s) a cat needs
at a particular time. I tried and tried, and gave up. As an example,
it is likely I'll now give a cat three essences (guessing), one
of which benefits her but the other two appear to do nothing, but
I never can figure out which of the three helped. I sort of feel
that even the essences that "appear" to have done nothing
(even if I could identify those) really do end up helping on some
level invisibly years down the line.
Before I really get into the flower essences themselves,
know that flower essences heal emotional, mental and spiritual wounds
of a being, and are very subtle. Essences are not substitutes for
conventional allopathic medicine -- or substitutes for herbs, homeopathy,
acupuncture, aromatherapy, or other modes of healing. It is appropriate
to do flower essences concurrently with other healing techniques.
Include flower essences in an overall plan of getting your cat well
and contented. If you are addressing a specific medical issue or
emergency like a bite wound, get the cat to a veterinarian right
away. Where flower essences fit in is they'd help the cat deal with
"how she FELT about having the bite wound," if you get
my drift. If you need to help your cat recover from a broken heart
or other trauma, flower essences are the best, but they'll take
TIME.
I gave up trying to look for much of a concrete
result within a specific period of time. What I learned to look
for over several weeks' time is: 1) Is the cat looking better and
feeling better? 2) Is she behaving the way cats generally behave
when they are content? 3) Are there signs she is "coming back
to life," so to speak? In other words, at least for me, there
is no immediate and concrete result, and that's okay -- I can live
with that. All I look for in a cat I've been giving flower essences
to is an increased sense of well-being over a number of weeks --
that's it. Emotional and spiritual wounds of ANY being takes time
(weeks or months, sometimes years), and expect the cat to exhibit
plenty of (or off and on) "down-time" and "crabby-time"
-- and know that "down" is appropriate and good. Beings,
including cats, don't heal according to a linear progression --
they heal in fits and starts, so don't look for consistency. Just
look for a general trend of gradually increasing contentment.
There are a lot of people who know a lot more about
flower essences than I, and there are people who know a lot more
about flower essences + cats than I. I am here to point you in the
direction of people who are more expert than I, including books,
websites and suppliers. When I first got into flower essences in
the mid-1990s, there wasn't much published, whereas now there's
is lots available for "do-it-yourselfers" like us. The
Internet is a really good resource too.
Try different techniques. Read different authors.
Start here but go beyond it. Experiment and find out what techniques,
strategies and suppliers work for you and your cat(s). The payoff
is huge.
You'll find different authors saying conflicting
things. Pick one and see if it works for you. If nothing happens,
move on and try something else. You will eventually settle into
a routine using specific resources that work for you. Don't try
to make the authors agree. One may say that two drops is the minimum
while another says five drops. One may say that putting essences
in the drinking water doesn't work, yet another may say just the
opposite, that putting essences in drinking water is the only way
to go. Keep in mind that the authors are saying what "is true
for them" according to their experience, cats and environments,
but not necessarily true for everyone. Just try something, and see
if you see small changes in mood or behavior in the cat.
What I know from personal experience is that flower
essences work. But they don't necessarily work FAST, and Americans
don't like SLOW. Can't please 'em all.
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